Wedding invites have a curious way of sneaking up on us, always showing up in the mail when we are least expecting a party. Besides, a single wedding entails roughly a hundred distinct costumes, one for each of the bride and groom's infinite functions. You want to strike the ultimate sexy-classy mix. And, as every woman who has forced herself not to cry while hunting knows, it's not easy. And, as every woman who has forced herself not to cry while looking for the perfect knows, none of this is easy.